Sometimes I just suck as a parent...

Making bad decisions is par for the course in parenting.  However, when you know something is bad for your child, say staying up to late or eating to much candy you just don't do it.  If you do you will reap what you sew.  I thought it would be a great idea to take Justin and Hailee to see the free movie down at our local movie theater.  They were playing Dolphin Tales today.  With Josh's last week of school approaching it will probably be our only opportunity to see a movie before he gets out of school.  As always I was running a little short on time so I thought lets stop by circle K and get some snacks like we usually do.  Without thinking I let Justin grab his usual, Frito's corn chips and apple juice.  With Hailee's snacks and my drink we were out the door and on our way to the movies.  It did dawn on me that getting those snacks probably wasn't wise, especially with his recent labs and discovering that they are both very high in Salicylates.  I ignored my gut feeling and we proceeded to the movies, snacks in hand.  While Justin started out listening and sitting still in his seat, as time went on I found myself saying" Justin sit still, Justin be quiet, Justin stop touching your face."  I could not believe what a clear difference it made in my child.  How very awful his behavior was.  By the time we left he was in full melt down mode.  Screaming " your hurting me"  Stop it mommy!! All the way to the car.  I  could not get angry at him,  I was however furious with myself.  I knew better, and did it anyways.  I am vowing right here and now not to ever allow my child to consume that poison ever again.  That is what it is, it is poison for him!!!

If at first you don't suceed....

Alright, so I first started this blog about Josh and all his issues.  However, now with Justin having issues and Hailee having a really hard first part of this year.  I have decided to included everyone in all future blogs.  Here are some updates.  We went to the Amen clinic in Feb of this year for Josh.  We found out that Josh has temporal lobe damage and part of his left temporal lobe is caved in.  Not good news.  Also he has what they refer to as the ring of fire.  That means his brain is firing all the time 24 hours a day.  He can never quite is brain.  After many trials and errors, I do believe our new round of meds and supplements are working.  It isn't perfect but I think it is getting better.  Now onto Hailee.  The first part of this year her Mitochondrial disease came back with a vengeance.  She was hospitalized several times due to her cyclic vomiting syndrome.  She also had to be in a wheelchair due to extreme fatigue. She is better now and with an addition of her new med, she has been episode free since March.  Now onto Justin.  We have known for a long time now that he has extreme behaviors.  He was diagnosed with ADHD about 6 months ago, which was no surprise.   However, things went from bad to worse with him.  To the point that we had no options other than to see Dr. Jerry for him as well.  We have an appointment to go back at the end of June.  We got some of his test results back and he has high levels of Yeast and Salicylates in his stool.  I looked up a low Salicylate diet and it turns out everything we were feeding him was extremely high in Salicylates.  Oh man I feel horrible.   You think you are feeding your child healthy, just to find out that no you are in fact poisoning your child.  That for your child these foods are toxic.  Even though I have gone out of my way to buy only organic foods.  It turns out that is not the problem.  The problem is in how the foods affect him.  We haven't even got the allergy tests back yet.  I am not sure what he is going to eat.  He is also an extremely picky eater.  He craves the foods he can't have.  I know God has a plan in all of this.  I will update everyone when I get more results.  Until then crazy is my normal....